“Thank you for being kind.”

“Thank you for being kind.” Those few words, written on a patient survey under ‘additional comments,’ took us by surprise.

Our first thought was that it was so sad that someone was worried about that. Yet, all too often, people go to an agency seeking help and are treated like a number not a person. Bullying is also at an all-time high. So many people don’t hesitate to call other people stupid because their beliefs are different from theirs. I don’t know about you, but I have found that Facebook, Twitter, and other social media have gone from being a place where I enjoyed seeing photos and updates from family and friends, to being a place where I often feel attacked. More and more often I see friends who post “I need to take a break from Facebook for a while.” I totally get that.

Our second thought on our patient’s comment is that we are glad she felt good about her time with us. Because that’s our goal. We know that when women come to see us they are often feeling stressed and alone. Their pregnancy may be a secret only they are carrying. Or it could be that they’ve told people who are now harassing them about what their decision should be.

Our Promise To You

I can promise you this. You will not be harassed by anyone at Your First Look. We are here to listen and to help you in your situation. We will answer your questions and help you find resources. But we will not judge you–whatever decision you make. We are 100% pro-women.

We are a nonprofit women’s center providing safe, no-cost, critically needed tests and services to women facing unintentional pregnancies. We are doctors, nurses,  sonographers, and social workers. We have 16 staff members as well as some volunteers. We offer information on all your options–abortion, adoption, and parenting. We also offer information and help with all kinds of resources–health insurance, doctors, mental health services, housing, WIC, addiction help, domestic violence support, education, and so much more.

And we are kind.


Your First Look Women’s Center provides free pregnancy tests, ultrasounds to confirm viability, and information on all your options—abortion, adoption, and parenting. We do not provide or refer for abortion services. All services are free and confidential.